The feminist movement created a lot more girls, and a lot less grown women. What is the difference you ask? I thought this was a cute answer to that question. I didn’t write this, I heard it on the show:
Girls leave their schedule wide open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women make their own plans and are willing to drop any of them for time with their man.
Girls want to control the man in their life.
Grown women know that if he is truly yours, he doesn’t need controlling.
Girls punish or nag you for not calling them.
Grown women understand they are not the only ones you are busy with.
Girls are afraid to be alone.
Grown women revel in it using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys.
Grown women ignore the bad guys.
Girls try to make you come home.
Grown women make you want to come home.
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women know that when they are loved and loving, they are automatically beautiful to their man.
Girls try to monopolize their man’s time. I don't want him hanging with his friends.
Grown women realize that a little bit of space makes the together time even more special.
Girls think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women offer their shoulder.
Girls want to be spoiled and tell their man so.
Grown women show him. And make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his manhood.
Girls get hurt by one man, and make all men pay for it.
Grown women know that it was just one man.
Girls fall in love and aimlessly chase the object of their affection, ignoring all signs.
Grown women know that sometimes the one you love doesn’t always love you back, and they move on without bitterness.
Girls will read this and cop an attitude.
Grown women will read this and re-post it.
Boys will read this and be confused.
Men will read this and take notes and re-post it.
Isn’t that such a perfect explanation of the difference between girls and grown women? I thought so. I don't know about you but I know plenty of girls and not enough grown women. And those damn girls are the ones who scare all the guys away from commitment. I don't blame those guys; I wouldn’t want to be committed to a girl. But it does make it a challenge for those women who are looking for commitment.
Now, Dr. Laura is an author, among many other things. She has written many books, one of which you may have heard of. The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands. This book gets kind of a bad wrap I'm afraid. I think, just like everything else Dr. Laura, it is pretty misunderstood and those who have opinions on the book are the ones who have not actually read it. (Remember that saying from grade school? Don't judge a book by its cover? Well, this book is no different.) Too many people like to tell me about this book without actually having read it. I have read it, twice, and it’s my marriage bible, (even though I am not married) and I tell each and every single man out there that I can to never to marry a woman if she is unwilling to read this book. This should be a deal breaker for men when picking a woman. Why? The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands has taken many girls and made grown women out of them. And you know what? Girls are not happy creatures. Grown women are. Girls are bitter, hostile, untrusting, and nasty. Grown women are happy. Girls are always mad, always on edge, always ready for a fight. Now, wouldn’t you rather be a grown woman?
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